midnight thoughts

Sometimes we embark on a journey that we so much longed to do so.But as we grow nearer to our destination the eagerness to achieve that goal seems to slowly fade away.Is it because the journey along the way has become painful or has it become meaningless? Maybe none of these assumptions are correct.Sometimes our heart get overburdened by the chaos of the world so much so that it establishes detachment form the worlds affairs and propels us to dislike most of the stuff that used to bring us content before (e.g we may start disliking our favourite food, music or even scenic places) In turmoils like these we don’t need anything, but two things.Firstly, spiritual connection with God.Secondly, time to our own self in order to reflect. At the end of the day it all comes down to endurance & patience.We all just have to learn to give time to things happening to us & around us to skillfully untangle the complications we face from day to day

As long as the thing we love the most isn’t within our grasps the venture to achieve it seems glamours.But, as we ride back from that journey we embark without appreciating the thing right in front of us because now it’s owned by us and has lost it’s charm. Similar is the case with relationships as long as the person we love isn’t with us every road leading towards him/her seems like rainbows and sun shines, but as soon as we get close to them and start indulging in their lives the charm that attracted us towards them gets lost amidst that relationship. As humans we are habitual of having this thirst for challenges, but this thirst often tends to damage our connections with other human beings. So, in order to avoid harming the relationship with others we have to learn to appreciate the art of interactions/relationships then only can we prevent the charm of relationships from fadin g .(a) Keep the Element of Surprise Alive (b) Verbalize Your Loving Feelings  (...